Friday, May 05, 2006

Can You Live This Fantasy Life



The new post over at Beauty vs. The Beast delves into fantasy. Specifically the topic regards whether fantasizing of others is in some way cheating on your significant other.

I am more of a situational fantisizer. The partner in my fantasies is almost always Angry Joyce and the fantasies revolve of times and situations that we have not been through. She would probably say that most of my fantasies involve myself and a mirror.

She is much more open about her fantasies than I am. She will tell me of hers and we will then go about acting them out and fulfilling them. I, on the other hand, feel somewhat possessive of my fantasies. I do not mind her sharing her fantasies and I am neither ashamed nor embarrassed by mine. I am also secure and comfortable enough in our relationship to tell her my fantasies. Maybe I feel in some way that some of my fantasies would grow weaker in my mind if I shared them and that if I fulfilled them then they would no longer have the same luster in my mind.

A special thanks to The Weirdgirl and Angel Jr. for their guest posts. You both did a great job. I also must add that Siren did her usual excellent job in putting the post together. I loved the Jabba pic.

Happy Fantasies to all.

18 comments:

David Amulet said...

You loved the JABBA pic? Dude, that is an odd fantasy. I was always more inclined toward the Leia-in-a-bikini part of that picture ... but to each his own!

-- david

:P fuzzbox said...

david: Leia is in the bikini. Jabba's in the background.

ozymandiaz said...

I have a pretty healthy fantasy life. i am not afraid to fantasize about anything. i realize that is what they are and i have no real desire for any of my fantasies to come true. for that matter, i feel it is best that they don't come true as many of my fantasies are just far to unrealistic to even consider attempting and the plausable ones, well, laws and morals are not just broken but desecrated.
I mean, cummon, winged horses like Pegasus don't really exist and the whole point of the fantasy is doing the creature... I mean doing it ON the creature in flight is the fantasy. Just being behind... I mean ON a horse with fake wings just wouldn't be the same...

angel, jr. said...

yes, I agree, fantasies are better left unsaid--they remain fantasies. This is the reason that their passion and hormonal drive is kept so alive--they have remained unnfullfilled.

The Phoenix said...

Princess Leia in the slave outfit was every boy's fantasy when Return of the Jedi came out.

Green Eyes said...

I was Han Solo fan myself!

Ahhhh, fantasies, aren't they grand?

:P fuzzbox said...

ozy: Winged Donkey Porn could be the next big thing on the net.

angel: Excellent point.

phoenix: That is the true force.

green eyes: I know.

guerrilla blogger said...

i have this fantasy: a chick, who has no hangups or emotional scarring or baggage and is happy with life, likes me. it's outrageous and totally sci-fi, but i dig it.

Sherri said...

I tend to fantasize a lot about tropical locations and secluded spots, lol!

starbender said...

I tell my fantasies 2 no-one!
;]

Crazy Dan said...

Thanks for the visuals you jackass. I thought you were to old to get it up.

:P fuzzbox said...

gb: Sounds the direct opposite of a country song.

sherri: Scenery is important.

starbender: Some of mine are meant to be kept close to the vest. That's fer sure.

:P fuzzbox said...

cd: I'm not that old. As the saying goes. 'What I use to do all night now takes me all night to do.'

Laurie said...

Sometimes fantasies are best left that for a number of reasons...

Catch said...

fantasies, fantasies, fantasies...ahhh yes....sweet sweet fantasies! Good post!

Jim said...

oddly, I fantasized about R2D2 instead of Princess Leia, maybe that's why I have so many blenders

:P fuzzbox said...

laurie: No truer words can be spoken.

catch: Thanks. First the holiday followed by fantasies. I guess this week had a theme after all.

:P fuzzbox said...

jim: His beeps were subliminal.